I read this incredible quote today:
The gift, once given, is no longer yours to control. If you give someone something, do so openly and freely, otherwise, what’s the point? If you’re not giving joyously, but to control the people around you, it’s time to reassess.
It’s not as if this idea is a new one to me. But this quote does a great job summing up a belief I’ve held for years but have been unable to communicate as well. Sure, we’ve all heard the cliche “no strings attached”. Those strings insinuate CONTROL – like a puppet on a string.
When we give, and then treat the givee as a marionette, we’ve not actually given a gift ‘tall. Think about it.
I’m still giving as I shared with you I would. Whether it be tithing, putting change in our Christmas jar, placing aside clothing, shoes, and household goods for Good Will drop-offs, picking up items at the store for friends or running their errands, donating cosmetics and personal products to the women’s shelter, etc. I have traded my, “How much cash can I get for this?” for “Who could use this?”
And trust me. I could use the cash!
I’ve had great examples to guide me. When I look around my house, every room has an item that has been graciously given to me. Without those puppet strings.
So, I do the same.
Lighten the load for someone else when you have the opportunity. Heck, it could be as simple as picking up a loaf of bread for a neighbor.
Simple gifts translate into full hearts.
Trust me. My heart runneth over.